Words fail me. The doctor at Bayview was nice, but...
He told me there was no treatment for my dog's lymphoma. That I should take her home for the weekend, spend time with her, then bring her back on Monday to put her down.
A second opinion at Cottonwood Animal Hospital the following Monday, and two weeks later their chemotherapy has produced a remission. I know it's not an option for everyone, it's crazy expensive and it lasts 25 weeks, but I hope to have her for at least another year. In the meantime, she's alert and happy and full of energy.
I really don't understand why Bayview didn't simply refer me to an oncologist. I feel bad for the bad review, but maybe it will be a good lesson learned.